Why We Broke up

Why We Broke up

Book - 2012
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Sixteen-year-old Min Green writes a letter to Ed Slaterton in which she breaks up with him, documenting their relationship and how items in the accompanying box, from bottle caps to a cookbook, foretell the end.
Publisher: Toronto : HarperCollins, c2012.
Edition: 1st Canadian ed.
ISBN: 9781443401890
1443401897
Branch Call Number: HAN
Characteristics: 354 p. : col. ill.
Additional Contributors: Kalman, Maira - Illustrator

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haklh Sep 26, 2018

4.5 stars.

I breathed a big sigh when I finally read the last sentence of this book, like I had been holding my breath all this time. (By finally I mean I had read back and forth within it a few times before finally reading all the way to the end. It's that kinda book - you want to know what happens yet you don't want it to stop.)

There's an earlier reviewer who said reading this book is like going through a breakup yourself. It's true. The first-person, stream of consciousness narrative draws you right in, feeding upon your own history of love-related pain. Many (small) details of the plot resonate with me - I particularly like the sudden, unexpected way that Min and Ed connected: the intense, bohemian girl (she hates the label "arty") and the handsome jock. They caught each other's eyes, even though neither expected it.

I like the structure of the novel - Min and Ed have broken up and, as her final defiant act of letting go, she is dumping a box, full of the mementoes of their weeks together, on his doorstep. On the way to his house, she is busy writing a long letter (ie the novel) explaining why they broke up. Each item in the box introduces part of the relationship and forms a "chapter". These items are announced by full-page illustrations by artist Maira Kalman. It's an elegant conceit that enriches Min's characterisation. I keep imagining a young Winona Ryder, all intense dark eyes and grave brow, a jumble of stubbornnes and vulnerability, as Min. (Perhaps it's my age but I can't imagine a more modern equivalent.)

It's a credit to Daniel Handler that there is surprising depth to Ed too. He's more than just a classic jock; he is good at maths, thoughtful and witty when it pleases him, and he seems genuinely attracted to Min's personality. Sentimental Me would like to think that Min allows him to be something beyond the jock stereotype, his "true self" perhaps. Alas he behaves like a jock because that's all he knows. This story is a great one for What Ifs - (again, being sentimental) I would like to think that, had the relationship happened when they were older, it might have worked out - stronger self-belief could have overcome the environmental forces that try to keep this odd-couple apart.

Overall, a raw, affecting read, with luscious descriptive language. I wish I knew of it earlier.

SPPL_Anna Mar 24, 2018

Interesting concept, poor execution, because the characters are not very compelling and the answer to the question posed by the title is just very obvious.

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kg09
Aug 04, 2016

The best part of the book was the last 25 pages. Other than that, the book was good but not amazing.
Really cool concept especially with the illustrations.The actual plot, character development and writing style were just ok.

A satisfying relationship post-mortem that will surprise you with its emotional depth. The illustrations and general framing are very effective at taking you right back to that 'first love' feeling. I would have liked a more nuanced approach to sexuality (e.g. an actual gay character rather than just gayness being used as a point of debate), and for the narrative to push back a bit more against the harmful 'you're not like other girls' idea.

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cara123
Jun 12, 2016

Interesting concept for a book. Was a quick and easy read, however I felt that there was limited character development, but it does a good job at touching on relationship issues of adolescent love.

CRRL_CraigGraziano Jul 16, 2015

Min has just left a box on Ed's doorstep. The box contains the pieces of evidence of their brief relationship, as well as letters explaining each piece's importance.

Read more at: http://www.librarypoint.org/why_we_broke_up_handler

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lanapea17
Apr 02, 2015

I honestly love this book. After breaking up with my boyfriend this book helped me get through it alot easier. I'm so happy that I found this book! All the characters in this book were so descriptive and relatable. I really enjoyed all the old reference sin this book!!
Overall 10/10

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nidofito
Sep 07, 2014

1 star because the only part I truly enjoyed in the book was during the last 10% where we found out the actual reason for the break up.

The writing style - I did not enjoy it. I went from being intrigued to being confused and bored to ultimately, being annoyed. Didn't help that I sometimes had trouble differentiating dialogues between the characters.

Moral of the story:

Girls: don't be like Min. I realize love gives you tunnel vision and makes you do stupid things but if you're having an emotional roller coaster every passing minute that you spend with your SO then honey, it's more than a case of just nerves. You need to sit down, take a good look inside yourself and trust your instincts.

Boys: don't be like Ed. Nobody likes a greedy boy. The world is more than just what is convenient for you and your needs.

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madisonkenney
Jul 28, 2014

I loved this book. The illustrations added something unique. I really felt for the characters and thought it was very well written.

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blackjack2ne1
Dec 29, 2013

Quite the interesting read. The characters have depth and unlike some readers, I liked the old movie references. It shows Min's passion of things other people like Ed don't really understand. She's different from the other girls he dated and that's what made it interesting. The concept was well thought out and I loved every second of reading this book.

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nptne
Aug 08, 2012

I love this book. It's about a girl who broke up with her boyfriend. She expains their memories and the stories behind each object that she has in a box. She expains them in a letter & gives the letter & the box back to Ed, her ex. It's a really good book

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